Giving Stories

UMW Community Gets to the Heart of Giving Back on Mary Wash Day, April 2-3

Justin Gerbereux ’97 met his wife, Allison Coleman Gerbereux ’96, when they were on the cross-country team together as Mary Washington students. After they fell in love and graduated, he proposed to her in front of Willard Hall, where she lived during her junior year of college.

The University of Mary Washington will hold its eighth annual Mary Wash Day, a 24-hour celebration of philanthropy and engagement, starting at noon Wednesday, April 2, and concluding at noon Thursday, April 3.
The University of Mary Washington will hold its eighth annual Mary Wash Day, a 24-hour celebration of philanthropy and engagement, starting at noon Wednesday, April 2, and concluding at noon Thursday, April 3.

“The University of Mary Washington has always held a special place in our hearts,” said Justin, who joined the UMW Foundation Board of Trustees to give back to his alma mater. “Reflecting on the many memories and opportunities available to us at this small liberal arts institution, I hope we can sow some seeds to inspire other graduates to support today’s students.”

The Gerbereuxs will give $10,000 to the unrestricted Fund for Mary Washington when 100 gifts are made by married alumni couples during Mary Wash Day, running from noon Wednesday, April 2, through noon Thursday, April 3. Now in its eighth year, this 24-hour celebration of philanthropy and engagement gives alumni, families, friends, faculty, staff, and students the chance to come #TogetherUMW and share their love of Mary Washington.

“This has the potential to be an absolutely record-breaking Mary Wash Day,” Director of Annual Giving Shelby Orlando ’14 said. “Every gift, regardless of size, holds the power to create lasting impact. When combined, these contributions shape the future of UMW students, enhancing their education and empowering them to make a difference for generations to come.”

Members of the UMW community have sponsored more than $500,000 in challenges and matches, exceeding totals from previous years. Their commitment will double and even triple the impact of each gift, helping the University reach its goal of 2,500 gifts from donors, including 1,200 alumni contributors and 350 new supporters.

Many participation challenges and dollar-for-dollar matches support the Fund for Mary Washington, which underpins every aspect for which the University is known and loved, such as a leading liberal arts and sciences education, small class sizes, personal relationships with professors and classmates, and more.

Last spring, $25,000 was distributed among eight campus projects and initiatives pitched by UMW students, faculty, and staff through the Fund for Mary Washington Impact Grant program. More projects will be selected next month by an alumni committee to receive these donor-funded grants.

Supporters can also contribute to student scholarships, academic departments, service and leadership opportunities, campus beautification, and more. This year’s goals include:

  • 540 gifts (Fredericksburg’s area code) will unlock $5,000 from Virginia Blackwell ’67 and John Rigsby
  • 1,908 gifts (UMW’s founding year) will unlock $16,000 from UMW Foundation Board of Trustees member Patti Boise Kemp ’69
  • 2,500 gifts will unlock $100,000 from a longtime contributor for the Lynne Gourley Farrell ’62 Fund for Mary Washington Endowment
  • When 100 first-time alumni donors give, UMW Foundation Board of Trustees member Donna Sheehan Gladis ’68 and husband Steve will donate $20,000
  • When 350 first-time donors give, the UMW Foundation Board of Trustees will unlock a $50,000 gift
  • UMW President Troy Paino and wife Kelly will make a $100,000 gift when 1,200 alumni donors contribute
  • A gift from all 50 states and Washington, D.C. will unlock a $10,000 gift from UMW Foundation Board of Trustees member Vicky Nichols Wilder ’80 and Marty Wilder ’80, former chief of staff at Mary Washington
  • The Alumni Association Board of Directors and Young Alumni Council are sponsoring challenges and matches to encourage alumni of all ages to give back to their alma mater
  • UMW Foundation Board of Trustees member Kourtney Whitehead and husband Terrance, parents of a UMW student, will unlock $5,000 when 500 gifts are made by parents of current students or alumni
  • UMW Foundation Board of Trustees member Mike Charnoff ’95 and Katie Valentine Charnoff ’04 are sponsoring a Devil-Goat contest to encourage friendly competition between odd- and even-year graduates
  • Share the Love Challenge: When the Mary Wash Day 2025 video is shared 100 times (from the official UMW Facebook page) by midnight on April 2, Margaret Birch ’79 will donate $10,000

After making a gift at givingday.umw.edu, supporters can spotlight their names and gifts on the donor wall or remain anonymous, and track progress on dynamic leaderboards.

Festivities will kick off April 2 at the Mary Wash Day headquarters on the Cedric Rucker University Center patio (or inside in case of rain) at 11 a.m., with food, games, prizes, a photobooth, and stations for donations, selfies, and writing thank-you notes to donors. The UMW Pep Band and UMW Symfonics will perform, and students can pet and play with puppies brought by Old Dominion Humane Society.

Students can also participate in a scavenger hunt to find 10 stuffed eagles hidden across campus, which can earn a $100 donation to the area of their choice at UMW, courtesy of Beth Craig ’77.

UMW Dining will serve up a Mary Wash Day-themed menu, with frosted blue cookies and dishes named for key people and places on campus. Downtown businesses will offer discounts and incentives for donors.

The Fredericksburg Regional Alumni Network will host a happy hour and trivia night April 2 at the Hurley Convergence Center from 5:30 to 8 p.m., and the Cedric Rucker University Center and Jepson Science Center will be lit in Mary Wash blue lights.

Campus Recreation will also sponsor a Mary Wash Day walk on April 3 at 8 a.m., starting at Goolrick Hall.

Members of the UMW community are invited to sign up as Mary Wash Day ambassadors. They’ll receive a customized dashboard and social media toolkit to inspire others to contribute, and a chance to win an exclusive UMW duffel bag. Those who post on social are asked to tag @umw_alumni and @marywash and use #TogetherUMW and #MaryWashDay.

More information about Mary Wash Day can be found on the FAQ Page. For additional questions, please contact the Office of Annual Giving at umwgift@umw.edu.

-Article written by Assistant Director of Advancement Communications Jill Graziano Laiacona ’04

UMW Studio Art Major Paints a New Path as a Nontraditional Student

Kathleen Trenchard was walking on the University of Mary Washington campus early one morning when something caught her eye next to Melchers Hall. The giant cedar tree bathed in sunlight soon became the subject of her first piece for her Topics in Painting course.

“In the class, we were focusing on our personal canon and how we wanted to grow as an artist,” said Kathleen, who captured the evergreen in a photo and amplified the colors before bringing it to life on canvas with vibrant blue, red, green, and gold oil paint and pigment powder. “It was an exercise to push myself in ways that are not normal for me.”

After decades as a self-taught artist and military spouse, Kathleen is pursuing a Bachelor of Liberal Studies degree in studio art at Mary Washington – and earning recognition for her work in the process. Her painting, “On the Way to Class,” spent several months hanging in Brompton, home to UMW President Troy Paino and wife Kelly. The piece also graces the cover of the 2023-24 Fiscal Year Endowment Report, recently published by the Office of University Advancement and the UMW Foundation.

Kathleen was also selected from over 600 professional artists from New Jersey to South Carolina to have her work displayed in the Mid-Atlantic New Painting Biennial exhibit. The oil painting of her husband, “Terry,” and more than 70 other works – including those by Mary Washington alumni Heidi Reszies ’86, Emma Knight ’92, and Jasper Drilling ’22 – were on view in the UMW Galleries throughout much of the fall semester.

“I didn’t realize the caliber of artists who were considered, so I was really surprised to find out I was the only current UMW student with a painting in the show,” Kathleen said. “It was such an incredible honor.”

A Pennsylvania native, Kathleen briefly moved to Fredericksburg almost two decades ago with her husband, a Marine who was stationed at Quantico. After stints across the country and abroad, her family returned to Virginia, where she began helping their children explore their college options. She soon realized that she wanted to go back to school herself.

“I had always done art as a hobby, but it was never something I thought about doing professionally,” said Kathleen, who immersed herself in courses in painting, printmaking, sculpture, ceramics, woodworking, and art history. “It’s good to know you can just follow a dream and see where it takes you.”

She also began a museum studies minor, which she’s completing under the mentorship of Professor of Historic Preservation Cristina Turdean and UMW Galleries Director Tracy Stonestreet.

“Kathleen is an incredibly motivated and thoughtful student,” Tracy said. “Her interest in art is evident in her work across campus and the community. She has a unique painting style – both realistic and stylized, with a great sense of color.”

Kathleen poses for a picture at the Marine Corps Museum, where she is currently interning with artist-in-residence Kristopher Battles. Photo courtesy of Kathleen Trenchard.
Kathleen poses for a picture at the Marine Corps Museum, where she is currently interning with artist-in-residence Kristopher Battles. Photo courtesy of Kathleen Trenchard.

Kathleen has also volunteered as a docent at the nearby Marine Corps Museum. This spring, she’s an intern with the museum’s artist-in-residence, Kristopher Battles. “I’ll help him train young Marines to become combat artists, so they can make a visual record for the history of the Marine Corps,” she said.

She plans to continue working there after she graduates. In the meantime, she’s creating a series that depicts the UMW instructors who have made an impact on her and her education.

“I wanted to gift each of my professors a portrait to thank them for their dedication to my artistic goals,” said Kathleen, who learned to loosen her brush strokes and explored new color choices with the series. “What I have learned from them has been invaluable to me and my journey.”

– Article by Assistant Director of Advancement Communications Jill Graziano Laiacona ’04 

Scholarships Strike the Right Note for UMW Music Major

University of Mary Washington senior Mima Manton decided at a young age that she was going to study music. Many members of her family were choral singers, her uncle played trombone, her sister learned flute and cello, and like her mother, Mima took up piano, flute, and bassoon.

Senior Mima Manton, who hails from England, is thankful for the scholarships she received at the University of Mary Washington, where she is a music major and performs in numerous ensembles, including the UMW Philharmonic and the University's new pep band. Photo by Karen Pearlman.
Senior Mima Manton, who hails from England, is thankful for the scholarships she received at the University of Mary Washington, where she is a music major and performs in numerous ensembles, including the UMW Philharmonic and the University’s new pep band. Photo by Karen Pearlman.

When it came time to go to college, Mima wasn’t sure where she wanted to go, but she did feel ready to spread her wings and fly far from home.

“I always knew I wanted to study internationally,” said Mima, who hails from the Royal Town of Sutton Coldfield in England. A family friend helped her research American schools that offered music scholarships, which led her to UMW. “I loved the size of Mary Washington, and after a Zoom meeting with all the music professors, I knew it was the right place for me.”

Mima has since hit all the high notes, majoring in music and joining a slew of ensembles, including the UMW Philharmonic and woodwind chamber trio Aquila Venti. She can often be found at UMW Eagles basketball and volleyball games, serving as assistant director and lead singer with the University’s new pep band. She’s also a member of Mortar Board and the Student Alumni Ambassadors (SAA), welcoming alumni, donors, and friends to events put on by UMW’s Office of Advancement and Alumni Engagement.

“I’m so grateful for the chance to connect with the supporters who invest in our education,” she said at UMW’s Celebration of Giving in November. The recipient of the Henry and Grace Spicer and James E. Baker University Community Orchestra scholarships, she said, “I cannot stress enough that without these awards, I wouldn’t be standing in front of you today.”

Growing up outside of Birmingham, a city halfway between London and Liverpool, Mima took lessons through a music program for schoolchildren.

“I wanted to play clarinet, but I was still missing my two adult front teeth, so I chose flute instead,” said Mima, who later picked up the bassoon. “It’s a less common instrument, which gives me more opportunities to play.”

These opportunities include performing with the UMW Philharmonic, where she serves as principal bassoonist. She earned second place at this year’s UMW Concerto Competition, performing Franz Berwald’s Konzertstück for Bassoon and Orchestra, which she played at the Celebration of Giving with Department of Music Chair and Professor Brooks Kuykendall on piano accompaniment.

“The range of Mima’s abilities is staggering,” Dr. Kuykendall said. “She does it all and at a very high level. She will leave us with a void when she graduates — but that will give a number of students the opportunity to step in to her various shoes.”

Mima has explored both the performance and production side of music at Mary Washington, taking courses in music history, theory, and sound and audio recording. In addition to enhancing her gifts as a musician and singer, they’ve helped her make and produce her own music for Spotify, showcasing a range of influences like Elvis Presley, Michael Jackson, Amy Winehouse, Jessie J, and Dua Lipa.

“My musical experiences have developed in ways I could have never imagined,” said Mima, who is thankful for the friendships she’s made through the pep band and other campus activities.

After she graduates, she aspires to work in a recording studio or performance venue. She also recently took the Associated Board of the Royal Schools of Music, an exam that can provide licensure for her to privately teach bassoon and flute. “It took years of preparation, but I wanted to do it for my own personal accomplishment.”

Whatever trajectory her talent takes, one thing’s for sure – serving as an SAA has shown her that she can come home to Mary Washington whenever she wants.

“Seeing alumni who’ve been in my shoes, gone out into the world, and still come back to support their alma mater has been truly inspiring,” Mima said. “Even though I’ll miss it, I hope to do the same. UMW will always hold a special place in my heart.”

Learn more about establishing scholarships and how private support makes a difference in the lives of UMW students who receive scholarships, research fellowships, and internship grants.

– Article by Assistant Director of Advancement Communications Jill Graziano Laiacona ’04

Blazing a Trail: Scholarships Help UMW Chemistry Major Find His Purpose

Sean McGavin’s college journey has taken him along diverse and far-reaching paths – hiking the Appalachian Trail, traversing the wilds of Montana, and crossing the ocean to the Galápagos Islands. But the UMW senior knows his path wouldn’t have been possible without the University of Mary Washington.

“I want to make the world a better place,” Sean said. While majoring in chemistry, he has served as a wildland firefighter and plans to use his science background to develop more environmentally safe ways of extinguishing the flames. “I didn’t know my purpose before coming to Mary Washington, but I found it here.”

Sean shared his story at UMW’s Celebration of Giving in November, when he told a room full of donors – including his own benefactor – how the Sally Brannan Hurt ’92 Study Abroad Scholarship gave him the chance to visit one of the most biodiverse places on the planet. Numerous students have witnessed the flora and fauna found on the tiny archipelago off the coast of Ecuador because of Sally’s generosity to her alma mater.

“Getting to experience a global ecological treasure like the Galápagos Islands inspires students like nothing else,” said Professor of Biological Sciences Andrew Dolby, who conducts the faculty-led trip for students and guided the UMW Alumni on the Road excursion that influenced Sally to establish her scholarship. “She opens up the world for students who would not be able to travel internationally without her support.”

That’s true for Sean, who didn’t feel ready for college after graduating from high school in Alexandria, Virginia. Instead, he spent part of a gap year hiking the Appalachian Trail from Georgia to Maine, while he figured out his next steps. “It made me realize how much I wanted a life and a job where I could work with birds above my head and bugs crawling across my boot.”

After his 2,200-mile trek, Sean applied to Mary Washington, calling it “close enough to home, but far enough away to spread my wings.”

He decided to major in chemistry after a course with adjunct instructor Caleb Strepka and appreciated the support he found from faculty members like Sarah Smith ’12, Leanna Giancarlo, and Davis Oldham. “They taught me how to be expressive and creative in how I tackled problems, even in the lab.”

Outside of class, he joined UMW’s Ultimate Frisbee team, bonding with one of the captains, a former wildland firefighter. Sean has spent the last three summers doing just that in Montana, learning all he can to protect the trees, plants, and wildlife that dwell there.

“I realized that it was a career path where I could help people and take care of forests, which have given me such a sense of peace in my life,” said Sean, citing fires that have wiped out acres in Hawaii and Greece, and most recently, Southern California. “Wildland firefighting requires a deep understanding of ecological systems and diverse environments.”

He gained that from the Galápagos trip, where he planted trees and observed the giant tortoises and the marine iguanas that had fascinated him since childhood.

But even more important was learning about the islands’ preservation efforts.

“The chemicals currently being used to combat fires can often suffocate birds and animals and raise heavy metal levels in fish,” Sean said. After graduating from Mary Washington, he plans to pursue a Ph.D. in chemistry so he can develop a wildlife-safe fire retardant that can be used in many different environments.

“The chemistry department, the Frisbee team, and the opportunities that Sally has provided have made me who I am and have given me the support to achieve my dreams of saving the forests that gave me so much joy as a child,” Sean said. “This wouldn’t have been possible for me without her scholarship, and I’ll never forget that.”

Learn more about establishing scholarships and how private support makes a difference in the lives of UMW students who receive scholarships, research fellowships, and internship grants.

Read more about the next UMW Alumni on the Road trip to the Galápagos Islands now booking for June 2025. 

– Article written by Assistant Director of Advancement Communications Jill Graziano Laiacona ’04 

Scholarships, Sense of Community Add Up for UMW Math and Stats Major

The distance between the University of Mary Washington and the small town in Uganda where Aloysious Kabonge grew up is over 7,000 miles.

A student in a dimly lit room, dressed in a suit, standing at a podium and speaking into a microphone.
Aloysious Kabonge, who hails from Uganda, received the UMW Alumni and Friends Scholarship and several other awards to attend Mary Washington, where he’s become an integral member of the campus community. K Pearlman Photography.

Adjusting to life as an international student that far away in a new country had its challenges, the UMW senior said. “But I’ve formed strong bonds and built a supportive community that has truly made Mary Washington feel like home.”

Aloysious shared those sentiments and other highlights of his journey from Africa to America at UMW’s Celebration of Giving in November 2024. There, he expressed gratitude toward the donors who established the scholarships that have shaped his college experience and given him the chance to give back to the campus community.

“Your kindness, generosity, and support have changed my life profoundly,” said Aloysious, the recipient of the Mary Ann Dorsey, Thomas Howard and Elizabeth Merchent Tardy, and UMW Alumni and Friends scholarships.

During his remarks, Aloysious offered up a morsel of his life back in Kiwatule, outside Uganda’s capital of Kampala. “One of my favorite memories from home is sitting with elders in a circle, sharing stories in Luganda – our local language – and eating Luwombo, a dish of meat or vegetables [steamed inside banana leaves], along with juicy mangoes, fresh roasted corn, and tea with local spices.”

Aloysious attended seminary school as a young teen but decided on a different path due to his country’s human rights struggles. He applied to numerous schools abroad through Education USA and picked Mary Washington because of the private scholarships he was offered and the support he received from UMW’s Center for International Education, which helped him navigate moving overseas.

At UMW, he’s majoring in applied mathematics and statistics and minoring in data science. He collaborated with Professor of Mathematics Melody Denhere for a comparative study exploring ethnic and racial demographic trends over the last few decades, which he presented at the Irene Piscopo Rodgers ’59 Summer Science Institute.

“It was an invaluable experience that sharpened my skills in data collection, analysis, and visualization,” said Aloysious, who aspires to work in the technology, finance, or healthcare industries or pursue a graduate degree in data science or computational statistics.

In April, he shared his work at the National Conference on Undergraduate Research in Richmond, presented a group study titled “Artificial Intelligence for Emergency Alerting Systems and Reliability” at UMW’s 20th annual Research and Creativity Day,  and won second place – and $2,000 – in the College of Business’s Eagle Egg Pitch Competition. The judges praised his entrepreneurial idea for Proof Mode, a time-stamped PDF system meant to assure professors that assignments were completed without AI assistance.

He also appreciates the liberal arts and sciences education he’s found at Mary Washington. Higher education is more specialized in Uganda, he said, “but at UMW, I’ve been able to explore courses outside my major, such as post-colonial literature, which has broadened my perspective.”

Outside the classroom, Aloysious has thrown himself into campus life, serving as a Student Alumni Ambassador (SAA), connecting with students and alumni alike at Homecoming, Reunion Weekend, and presidential events.  He’s also been an orientation leader, resident assistant, and front desk associate and built homes for unhoused citizens as part of alternative service break trips through UMW’s Center for Community Engagement.

His commitment to the UMW community earned him the Alex Naden Award at UMW’s 2026 Eagle Awards for exuding the exceptional character, spirit, and personality of the award’s late namesake, a former UMW student who passed away in 2003.

Speaking of home, he’s gotten a taste of it through participating in the James Farmer Multicultural Center’s Colors of Africa and African Student Union. “I’ve cooked and shared meals with friends from Nigeria, Mali, Kenya, Tanzania, Ethiopia, Somalia, and South Sudan,” he said. “We often listen to music and play games together from our home countries.”

Assistant Director of Annual Giving Cadiann Treviño Pinto ’22, who oversees both the SAA program and the Eagle Engagement Center, has worked with Kabonge since he was a first-year student.

“Aloysious has always been a warm presence to be around,” she said. “At every event or activity, he radiates so much joy and excitement that you can’t help but smile when you talk to him.”

He feels the same when interacting with the alumni and friends who continue to support Mary Washington and its students.

“I’m here today, pursuing my dreams, because of you,” Aloysious told his donors at the Celebration of Giving. “You have given me opportunities that I could have only imagined, and for that, I’m deeply grateful.”

Learn more about establishing scholarships and how private support makes a difference in the lives of UMW students who receive scholarships, research fellowships, and internship grants.

This article was written by Assistant Director of Advancement Communications Jill Graziano Laiacona ’04.