Giving Stories

Celebration of Giving Spotlights the Power of Philanthropy

Lily Silva ’22 recently helped a student one-on-one with a lesson on Ancient Greece and Sparta. The young teacher, who earned a bachelor’s from the University of Mary Washington, said she felt gratified when the teen began to draw connections between battles for territory fought by early civilizations and his own experiences in the inner city.

“My students are funny, intelligent, and have bright futures ahead of them, but they don’t have many people that believe in them,” said Lily, who is now pursuing a master’s degree in secondary social studies through UMW’s College of Education while teaching in Richmond City Public Schools. “I want to be that for them. And because of the Ukrop Scholars Program, I can.”

Lily was among the Mary Washington students who spoke at the University’s 2022 Celebration of Giving, held for the first time in three years, on Dec. 8. Hosted by President Troy Paino and wife Kelly, guests reveled at festive cocktails and enjoyed a served dinner and caroling by the UMW Symfonics. But the real showstopper came when students shared personal stories illustrating the impact of private support on their Mary Washington experience.

“You make a profound difference in the lives of our students, faculty, and staff through your support and collective efforts,” Vice President for Advancement Katie Turcotte told the 100-plus donors in attendance. Last year Mary Washington awarded a total of $2.2 million in scholarships to students, she said, with $1.6 million of that coming from endowments. “So, on behalf of the University, thank you. Were it not for you, we wouldn’t be celebrating together tonight.”

President Paino, who introduced each of the student speakers, said that through their generosity to UMW, donors teach students about the value of philanthropy and service.

“At Mary Washington, it’s in our DNA to produce students who care deeply about making the world a better place,” he said. “They use their talents, developing them as they go, and give to others, much like all of you.”

Senior theatre major Oscar León ’23 said receiving the June Davis McCormack ’49 Scholarship and other awards allowed him to stay in college an extra year so he could have more chances to perform onstage.

“These scholarships have afforded me opportunities and helped me follow my dreams,” said Oscar, who recently starred in UMW Theatre’s production of The Rocky Horror Show and interned at Wolf Trap last summer. Minoring in arts administration and musical theatre, he aspires to work at an arts organization in the greater D.C. area.

Hollis Cobb ’23, a senior English major, spoke about how he is putting philanthropy into practice. Several years ago, he turned a 1989 ambulance into Bookmobile Fredericksburg. UMW’s Center for Community Engagement, Community Outreach and Resources (COAR), and Center for Economic Development helped him launch the nonprofit library-on-wheels, which distributes free books at schools, community events, farmers’ markets, and on campus.

“What I created might have been done on my own,” said Hollis, who hopes to work in the nonprofit sector while continuing to run the Bookmobile. “But I was equipped and supported every step of the way by the UMW community.”

That sentiment was echoed by Jane Kisselev, a senior international business major, who explained how her Washington Scholarship – which provides full tuition, room, and board – enabled her to study the fashion business in Paris. She’ll continue that research for her senior capstone on the secondhand clothing market before joining Fannie Mae’s climate impact team after graduation.

Summing up her gratitude, Jane said: “None of these opportunities would have been possible without the UMW community and donors like you.”

Learn more about establishing scholarships and how private support makes a difference in the lives of UMW students who receive scholarships, research fellowships, and internship grants.

View photos from the 2022 Celebration of Giving.

– Article written by Assistant Director of Advancement Communications Jill Graziano Laiacona ’04 

Alumna’s Gift Creates Collaboration Space for Aspiring Teachers

When Helen Chiles Mason ’50 graduated from Mary Washington, she immediately set out on a cross-country road trip, landing a teaching job when she arrived in California.

Helen's children (from left) Ann, Lee, Ben, and Mary Margaret visited the University of Mary Washington on Nov. 21 to dedicate the Mason Team Room in honor of their late parents.
Helen’s children (from left) Ann, Lee, Ben, and Mary Margaret visited the University of Mary Washington on Nov. 21 to dedicate the Mason Team Room in honor of their late parents.

Helen, who earned a degree in dramatic arts, spent her years passing along a love of learning to her elementary school students and her four children. So, when she passed away on Thanksgiving Day in 2021, Helen found her way back to her alma mater in the form of a generous unrestricted gift to the University of Mary Washington, which put the funds toward a collaboration space for aspiring educators.

Nearly a year later, the University dedicated the Mason Team Room – named for Helen and her late husband, Judge Leslie Mason Jr. – on Nov. 21, 2022, in the newly renovated Seacobeck Hall, now home to the College of Education (COE) and the Office of Disability Resources. The couple’s four children and a grandson traveled across the commonwealth, the country, and the globe to attend the ceremony and see Helen’s wishes carried out.

Helen Chiles Mason's photo from The Battlefield yearbook in 1950. Photo courtesy of Special Collections and Archives.
Helen Chiles Mason’s photo from The Battlefield yearbook in 1950. Photo courtesy of Special Collections and Archives.

“Our education students are … eager to have spaces like this where they can collaborate, engage in discussions, and share ideas,” COE Dean Pete Kelly said. Prior to the ceremony, he gave the family a private tour of Seacobeck Hall, including the Mason Team Room, already being utilized by students.

Having access to spaces like this where education students can work as teams, Dean Kelly said, means that “when they graduate, they are well-equipped to meet the needs of future generations of students.”

Assistant Vice President of Gift Planning Jan Clarke read the Board of Visitors’ resolution and explained at the dedication how naming gifts can help teach the UMW community about the value of philanthropy. “Many of the beautiful places we enjoy on campus are because of private support from generous donors like Helen, who want to help the University move forward.”

Jan also thanked the Mason family for traveling such long distances – some came from California and even Vietnam – to visit Mary Washington and celebrate their mother and grandmother’s life. “Especially her time on this campus that shaped her during her formative years,” he said.

Ben Mason, Helen’s son, expressed gratitude on behalf of his family to the University for finding such a fitting way to pay tribute to his late parents.

“Education was so important to both of them,” he said. “Mom liked teamwork and for people to gather together, so we appreciated that you did this for her, for us, and for Mary Washington.”

For information on naming gifts at the University of Mary Washington, please contact the Office of University Advancement at advance@umw.edu or 540-654-1024.

– Article written by Assistant Director of Advancement Communications Jill Graziano Laiacona ’04

Weatherly Wing Dedication Hits High Note for Devoted Alums

Marceline “Marcy” Weatherly Morris ’50 remembers how her parents saved and sacrificed, taking out loans so she could pursue a music degree at Mary Washington.

“They just knew it was important for their only child to have an education,” said Marcy, who also fell in love with a young sailor in college, Elmer Morris Jr. ’50, who came to his mother’s alma mater on the GI Bill. At her parents’ request, Marcy waited until after graduation to marry her beloved “Juney,” so that her maiden name, Weatherly, would be on her diploma.

That surname will now live on at the University of Mary Washington, with a significant gift from the Morrises to name the Weatherly Wing in the newly renovated Seacobeck Hall for Marcy’s late parents, William Rupert and Lavon Gardner Weatherly. The alums returned to their alma mater on Nov. 17 to dedicate the 150-seat multipurpose auditorium, which is being used for lectures, recitals, and other special events. They, along with family and friends, faculty, staff, administrators, and members of the Board of Visitors (BOV) and Foundation Board, listened as a series of speakers honored their contributions to the University.

“One of the greatest joys I’ve had as president here is getting to know dedicated alums such as you,” said President Troy Paino, praising the couple for their lifelong commitment and service to Mary Washington, which has educated five generations of the Morris family. “You embody so much of what we try to impart onto our students.”

The president also thanked them for their continued support of UMW, including establishing the Marceline Weatherly Morris Musical Theatre Scholarship and funding the renovation of the Morris Stage at Heslep Amphitheatre, where Marcy was crowned May Queen her senior year. “Your generous gifts help our students learn, grow, and pursue their interests and passions, just as the two of you did while you were here at Mary Washington.”

BOV Rector Devon Williams Cushman ’93 read the BOV’s resolution and spoke about her shared connection to Marcy and Juney as Mary Washington alums, calling them an “inspiration” for the UMW community.

Pete Kelly, dean of the College of Education, now housed in Seacobeck Hall, told the couple that students and faculty are already learning and performing in the Weatherly Wing. “I know that generations to come will enjoy it.”

Expressing her gratitude on behalf of the student body, junior Sofia Taylor ’24 sang the opening of an aria from The Tales of Hoffmann, which she performed in the space earlier this year. Aquila Venti, a student chamber music trio, also played, showcasing the room’s incredible acoustics.

“The Weatherly Wing is the perfect place for music,” said Sofia, a full-ride Alvey Scholarship recipient who is majoring in psychology and minoring in music and neuroscience. “I’m sure if this space was a part of the Mary Washington campus in 1950, Mrs. Morris would have enjoyed performing here as a student.”

At last, Marcy took the mic, sharing her appreciation to the University for giving her and Juney the opportunity to pay tribute to her parents and the Weatherly name.

“We love Mary Washington, we love our family, and we love each other, and that’s pretty good after 72 years of marriage,” she said. “Thank you for being here and for letting us be a part of this special place.”

For information on naming gifts at the University of Mary Washington, please contact the Office of University Advancement at advance@umw.edu or 540-654-1024.

– Article written by Assistant Director of Advancement Communications Jill Graziano Laiacona ’04 

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Legacy Celebration Connects Generations of Mary Washington Alums

When Oliver Kemp ’27 checked the University of Mary Washington’s admissions portal at 7 a.m. on Nov. 10, he got the news he had been waiting for.

“By 7:01 a.m., his mother, sister, and I also knew he got into Mary Washington,” said his grandmother, Patti Boise Kemp ’69, who has shared her lifelong love of her alma mater with her grandson over the years. “He was still pinching himself when we were on ‘our campus’ last weekend.”

The Kemps were among the 22 families who attended UMW’s annual Legacy Celebration on Saturday, Nov. 12. Hosted by the Office of Alumni Engagement, guests enjoyed lunch at the Jepson Alumni Executive Center, a student-led tour of campus, and an opportunity to meet and take family photos with President Troy Paino and wife Kelly at Brompton.

Legacy families with prospective students also had the chance to attend an Admissions Open House in the Cedric Rucker University Center and learn about a new Legacy scholarship. Students with a parent, grandparent, or sibling who graduated from or currently attends Mary Washington are eligible to apply for the $1,000 award, which is renewable each year.

“The Legacy Celebration gives the University an opportunity to recognize the family connections that exist between different generations of Mary Washington alumni and current and prospective students,” said Executive Director of Alumni Engagement Mark Thaden ’02.

Joanne Bartholomew Lamm ’85 and Christopher Lamm ’85 met and fell in love with each other – and with Mary Washington – when they were students. They returned to their alma mater this weekend with their children, including Rebecca Lamm ’13 and Stephen Lamm ’19, and enjoyed visiting with old friends and meeting prospective students.

“This place significantly shaped our lives and gave each of us our first taste of freedom and adulthood,” said Joanne, comparing the Legacy Celebration to a family reunion. “Having that common thread makes it so easy to jump right in and have meaningful conversations with other alums across the generations who are all devoted to Mary Washington.”

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– Article written by Assistant Director of Advancement Communications Jill Graziano Laiacona ’04